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Cleaning House Review & Giveaway

Share & Help Me Grow

I have been sharing a lot of parenting fails lately and here comes another… Our children are spoiled.

Even though I never intended to raise my children to expect that money grows on trees and that they can have whatever they want as long as they ask the right person and follow the request with “please,” this attitude of entitlement seemed to ooze out of their pillows and wrap their tiny brains in poison.

And me? I let it happen. Partially because I don’t want to stir up problems in the family when someone gives too many gifts. Partially because I tried to refuse too many gifts and my resistance was futile. Partially because… this is the big one… I am lazy and lack follow-through.

Rid your home of the attitude of entitlement by teaching your children the basic skills they need before they leave home with this 12-Month Plan by Kay Wills Wyma. Cleaning House review and giveaway #mommytimeparty

Well, I have honestly had enough. I am disgusted by the attitude I see in my children when I tell them it is time to put away their electronics and they respond with nasty looks on their faces and snarky comments. I am frustrated by the piles of toys and clothes I find stashed inside their closets only just a few days after I have organized their rooms. I am sickened by the pile of dishes on the counter with last night’s dinner crusted and stuck.

Something needs to change… and it is ME.

Cleaning House by Kay Wills Wyma

I have no idea how I found this book on Amazon. I was not looking for “how to rid my children of entitlement attitudes” but I think God knew that I needed motivation… and to know that I was not alone.

In Cleaning House: A Mom’s 12-Month Experiment to Rid Her Home of Youth Entitlement, Kay Wills Wyma shares the experiment she did with her family after coming to that moment when she realized something needed to be done. Her plan was to make a list of basic tasks her children needed to have experienced and be able to accomplish on their own before they were old enough to leave home. Cleaning House chronicles her journey through family meetings, teenage attitudes, prepubescent tantrums, and a long list of woes every mother can understand.

By reading about Kay’s experiment, you realize that the issues in your family are not foreign. You are not the only mother struggling with lazy, over-expectant children and their long list of desires. Cleaning House is filled with real life, practical ideas, and a nice dose of humor.

Intentionally teaching children about life

If I sit back and wait for my children to learn how to do the basic tasks by observation, I will be sitting for a long time because unless I ask for their attention (or get on the phone), they ignore me. I need to be intentional. I need a plan.

 

Rid your home of the attitude of entitlement by teaching your children the basic skills they need before they leave home with this 12-Month Plan by Kay Wills Wyma. Cleaning House review and giveaway #mommytimeparty

Kay’s 12-month plan is… can I say, “brilliant”? As the children learn the basic duties required by life, they also are schooled in diligence, self-motivation, and the pleasure that comes from accomplishment.

The twelve tasks her children needed to master were:

  1. how to make a bed and maintain an orderly room
  2. how to cook and clean a kitchen
  3. how to do yard work
  4. how to clean a bathroom
  5. how to get a job… outside the home
  6. how to do laundry
  7. how to do handyman jobs
  8. how to host a party
  9. how to work together
  10. how to run errands
  11. how to put others first through service
  12. how to act mannerly

Obviously, I am not going to be putting my two year old out on the sidewalk to deliver newspapers and I will not be allowing my 9 year old to go to the store alone, but I can use Kay’s suggestions and be teaching my children the fundamentals of these lessons, preparing them for when they are old enough to accept the larger responsibilities.

Rid your home of the attitude of entitlement by teaching your children the basic skills they need before they leave home with this 12-Month Plan by Kay Wills Wyma. Cleaning House review and giveaway #mommytimeparty

My favorite part of Cleaning House

While the entire book is full of juicy tidbits and a-ha moments, my favorite part of Cleaning House is at the end of each chapter when Kay shares a list of what she saw her children learn and a list of what she learned by guiding them through the process.

Sometimes, parenting can be a chore, but by reading Cleaning House, I was affirmed that the daily grind is worth the exhaustion, attitudes, and tantrums. I received the reassurance that my efforts will pay off, my children will learn valuable skills , and I will learn priceless lessons.

Our 12-month plan begins on September 1st.

Buy it now

Cleaning House: A Mom’s 12-Month Experiment to Rid Her Home of Youth Entitlement by Kay Wills Wyma is available from WaterBrook Multnomah and at Amazon.com in paperback, for Kindle, and as an audiobook.

Psst… Kay also writes at her spot in the blogosphere, The Moat Blog.

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parenting bundle

WaterBrook Multnomah has generously donated a bundle of parenting books valued over $70 for one reader at Meet Penny. The bundle includes:

  • Cleaning House by Kay Wills Wyma
  • Raising Boys by Design by Gregory L. Jantz and Michael Gurian
  • Upside-Down Prayers for Parents by Lisa T. Bergren
  • You Can’t Make Me by Cynthia Ulrich Tobias
  • How We Love Our Kids by Milan and Kay Yerkovich

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Hi! I'm Tabitha! But, I bet you expected someone named "Penny." Long story made short, Penny is the coupon binder I started in 2010 when we were totally broke... as in BANKRUPT. Now, as a mom of five, I make 6-figures a year working at home and share ways to help you move from penny to profit while you raise a family with sense on cents.

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Comments

  1. Melissa George says

    August 7, 2013 at 8:49 am

    Oh my goodness!!! This is so me. I have done everything for my kids, given them everything that they want – within reason, but still too much stuff!, and done everything I can so that life isn’t too hard for them. In other words, they are spoiled rotten! They don’t have bad attitudes or feel entitled. But they are lazy and unprepared for life outside of our home. Instead of helping them I have hurt them. And a lot of it is because I’m lazy. It’s easier to do everything for them and around the house htan it is to teach them to do things for themselves. My husband has brought this to my attention several times and I’ve been working on it. But I think I really need to read this book. Thanks for sharing your heart. I am SO thankful that God led you to this book and that you’ve shared it with us!

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  2. Dee Johnson says

    August 8, 2013 at 2:54 am

    Great giveaway. I’ve been thinking of how to better train my kids. Sounds perfect. Thanks for the giveaway!

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  3. Katie says

    August 8, 2013 at 8:17 pm

    I like the EASY solution.

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  4. Kellie W says

    August 8, 2013 at 8:19 pm

    Love the site…the hot air balloons quickly caught my eye.

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  5. tammy c says

    August 8, 2013 at 8:22 pm

    more helping can be hurting

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  6. Kelli A. says

    August 8, 2013 at 8:36 pm

    Didn’t take me long to notice the recipe section, especially the recipe for the Lemonade Pie!!!

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  7. Krystal says

    August 8, 2013 at 8:36 pm

    Have added these books to my reading list. Thanks!

    Reply
  8. Lori H says

    August 8, 2013 at 8:48 pm

    Love the upside down sign! Made me laugh!

    Reply
  9. zekesmom10 says

    August 8, 2013 at 9:18 pm

    She likes The Pioneer Woman’s blog. I {big fat puffy heart} that woman.

    Reply
  10. Tiffany Whalen says

    August 8, 2013 at 9:45 pm

    I absolutely LOVE the family in the car at the bottom on the page!!! And the little boy riding the scooter along side the car! Too cute!

    Reply
  11. Kimberly Blane says

    August 9, 2013 at 4:37 pm

    I have been trying really hard for the past couple months to really let my son do things “on his own”… but sometimes… it’s really killer.

    Reply
  12. Heather says

    August 9, 2013 at 8:14 pm

    Completely agree with the “EASY” approach and that too much helping is hurtful. If they don’t learn to accept failure now, then they will never be willing to try new things as adults.

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  13. Deana says

    August 10, 2013 at 9:02 pm

    I learned that Kay used to work for the White House.

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  14. Barbie says

    August 11, 2013 at 8:45 pm

    I like the upside down sign at the bottom of the page.

    Reply
  15. julia says

    August 12, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    I noticed the sweet endings recipes right away. Great giveaway by the way!

    Reply
  16. Sandy says

    August 12, 2013 at 10:23 pm

    I related to the “recovering enabler, controller, procrastinator” and felt a twinge of envy…I’m still working on those things.

    Reply
  17. Keya says

    August 12, 2013 at 11:50 pm

    I love the design of your blog. The use of cut-out magazine letters adds interest to your title. I also like the family car at the bottom with one of your children choosing his own transportation alongside the rest of the family. Every family has that one, I guess…

    Reply
  18. Theresa says

    August 13, 2013 at 6:09 am

    I so need this! My kids are so lazy and spoiled! And I know it’s my fault and I don’t know what to do about it. My question is, though, how do you make this work when your kids are in public school? I see all these things and it’s great when you’re homeschooling and kids are home all day, but how do you make it work when they’re at school 6+ hours a day. Any help?

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  19. sarah says

    August 13, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    These books sound like exactly what I need in my life! My girls are only 3 and 5 but my 5 year old already has such a sense of entitlement. I know it’s all my doing…how could a child this young act that way without being TREATED that way. But now I don’t know how to undo it. It’s been such a struggle and we’ve really had some rough patches. I need help!

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  20. Judith Martinez says

    August 13, 2013 at 8:41 pm

    I love that she talks about how parents of teens need someone to come along.

    Reply
  21. sharon daniels says

    August 15, 2013 at 10:27 pm

    This would be very helpful in my house.

    Reply

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